Masculine / Feminine Polarities, Balancing The Energy Within
Trauma Identification – Scott
If negative cycles promote enough negative energies and our own traumas inside of us are triggered too much, there’s only so much we can take–even knowing the person we’re with has wonderful qualities as well. The fallout typically comes in the form of words, tones, looks and gestures. It doesn’t matter how good or pure the intent had been, if the outer-way we handle ourselves tells a different story.
All it may take is one or two bad cycles in an ocean of dozens of good qualities for things to sour relations. And if the expectation itself gets stuck from an onlooker, the possibility of “will that person change behaviors to remove this stress?” decays until the relationship is fully eroded. This is how expectations can and will kill love and how people feel they’ve lost their autonomy in their relationships.
When we try a new leap of faith and take on a different expectation that ‘Change is Possible with the Cycle,’ especially looking within and inside at our own patterns, it is like having a key to opening the stuck door of the pattern, but without any power behind the key to turn it.
Your feminine side gets expressed when embracing creative energy, feeling, dancing, playing, and attuning to your internal processes. Feminine in an eggshell is emotion, flow and creation.
Your masculine side gets expressed when working toward a goal, fixing things, making progress, getting things done, and pushing forward. Masculine in a nutshell is logic, doing and fixing.
We have both the feminine and masculine in us both: trauma can express itself in both our feminine and masculine with unresolved wounding, typically seen or felt when the masculine or feminine is too harsh or pulled back in moments of conflict.
In feminine wounding, this often looks like emotional dysregulation, feeling insecure and not rising to the moment, taking on too many masculine roles (identity shifts), seeking external validation, attracting men with wounding, prone to burnout, feeling ashamed, hate feeling dependent and more.
In masculine wounding, this often looks like overdoing, over-performing, chronic thinking, being tight and rigid, over-planning for the future, struggling to be calm in the moment, easily getting triggered or angered, shouting and being aggressive and more.
Trauma Identification – Scott
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